HOW TO GET YOUR EX BACK: 6 THINGS YOU NEED TO DO

HOW TO GET YOUR EX BACK-So you want to know how to reclaim your ex.

You’ve been in relationships when you knew the other person wasn’t right for you, but every now and then you’ll leave them and realise you made a huge mistake. Alternatively, your ex may have left you, but you’re confident that you still have a chance to have a happy life together.

While there are no promises that your ex will warmly welcome you back, there are some things you may do to get them back into a relationship (given that they are not a toxic person and are actually capable of a mutual, non-toxic relationship).

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In the past, I’ve felt suicidal because I didn’t know what to do or how to reclaim a wonderful person (emotionally and physically). I didn’t want to live without this individual any longer. I want you to think about this if you’re feeling down right now…

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Imagine you were in the middle of writing the storey of your life on your computer when it suddenly became infected with a virus and crashed.

. Would you instantly pour gasoline on it, light a match, and blow it up (physical suicide), risking the destruction of your entire home? (destroying those who love, trust, rely on, and rely on you).

.Would you flee in terror, abandoning your computer and storey? (suicide through emotional and spiritual means)

.Would you continue typing despite the fact that the screen isn’t lighting up and the keyboard isn’t working? (Denial, delusion, and avoidance are all signs of emotional and spiritual suicide.)

.Would you delude yourself into thinking this was simply a minor hiccup? And if the computer didn’t operate after a while, would you utilise every opportunity to chastise it and tell it how useless and defective it is? (another

No. None of these things would be done by you.

You’d figure out that something in the computer is broken to the point that it can’t function. Even if it doesn’t work right now, the virus can be eliminated and the damage rectified. Destroying your machine or refusing to fix the problem will not solve the issue.

It eliminates any possibility of you finishing the storey that only you can write.

Don’t lose faith in yourself.

Here’s what you should do to reclaim your ex…

1.Allow them time and space to think.(HOW TO GET YOUR EX BACK)

HOW TO GET YOUR EX BACK

“Um,” you might be thinking. Instead of pushing my ex-partner away, I’m looking for a means to bring them back.”

However, if you want to win back your ex, you must give them time and distance. Calling them nonstop, pleading for their return, crying on the phone, and all of the other things we do when we’re hurting them is a huge turnoff.

If your ex dumped you, it’s much more of a turnoff. They’re plainly looking for a break from your relationship. It’s not a good idea to text and call all the time.

Furthermore, the passage of time and space may give them the impression that they are missing you and recalling the positive aspects of your relationship.

And, while you’re probably reading this because you’re convinced your ex is The One, it’s possible they aren’t. It may come as a surprise, but giving them time and space can allow you to reflect on the connection – what worked and what didn’t.

Then you know you have something worth fighting for if you still miss them.

2.Make use of the No Contact Rule (and extend it to social media).

HOW TO GET YOUR EX BACK

This one can be difficult, especially if you and your ex were together for a long time. It’s difficult to quit talking to someone who has been there for you for months, if not years, but is no longer in your life. You may have relied on them for emotional support for a long period, and quitting is difficult.

This guideline goes a step further than the previous one in terms of allowing people room. You can give your ex space and still communicate with them on occasion, but a no contact time will ensure that you are not reminded of them at all.

This guideline serves two purposes: it benefits both you and your ex.

With this rule in place, you may begin to focus on your life without your ex and rebuild yourself. It’s heartbreaking to lose a decent person, and being reminded of them every day when they post on social media can drive you insane.

It also provides an opportunity for your ex to miss you.

If you want to reestablish your relationship with your ex (which you obviously do because you’re still reading), you should avoid making contact with them but keep their contact information.

The same may be said for social media. On social media, keep them as friends, but hide their accounts.

3.Spend time with family and friends.

There was a moment when you and your ex were strangers. Unless you’ve been dating the same person since middle school, you probably had a social circle of friends and relatives with whom you spent a lot of time.

Now is the moment to restore and refocus on these relationships. This will allow you to reclaim your identity as the person you were before meeting your ex.

Strengthening these ties can help you heal from your breakup while also boosting your self-esteem. It’s natural for people’s self-esteem to be sapped following a breakup. This can assist you in regaining your strength.

Reconnecting with family and friends might also help you fill the vacuum left by your ex’s absence from your life.

When you and your ex do reunite, you’ll be more confident and less thirsty as a result. More like the person with whom they first fell in love.

4.Take up a new pastime (or get back to an old one).

This is an excellent time to devote yourself to a pastime, whether it’s an old one or one you’ve always wanted to try.

This is also a terrific approach to boost your self-esteem and aid in your recovery from the breakup.

When I was going through a particularly difficult breakup and felt powerless, I recall deciding to take charge of what I could:

.How much did my body move?

.What I Consumed

.Whether I reacted to my triggers or not

Every day, I put forth a lot of effort in the gym. I used any spare time I had to plan more attentive meals. When I did have free time, I noticed that I didn’t obsess as much as I used to because I was putting my energy into other things. (In other words, I was too fatigued to care much when I had free time).

Whatever the case may be, make sure you set aside some time to focus on yourself.

5.Reintroduce yourself to other individuals and begin dating again.

This may seem counterintuitive, yet it may be the key to reuniting with your ex.

Start seeing other people once you’ve gained some perspective. This may seem strange at first, especially if you’re trying to get your ex back, but it can be beneficial.

By dating again, you’re sending a clear message to your ex that you’ve moved on. And that you’re getting on with your life without them.

This may not bother them if your relationship is irreparable. However, if you don’t, they’ll be envious. They’ll begin to wonder how you got so far so fast, and what these new dates are like.

If you decide to start dating again, keep it casual, classy, and courteous. Continue to ride your white horse. Don’t do anything that makes you uncomfortable. Date to connect, acquire more perspective, and reinforce that another person is not your primary source of happiness.

6.Make an honest assessment of your relationship problems.

Take the time to determine whether or not your relationship problems are actually fixable and whether or not your underlying values are compatible.

How to Recover Your Ex…

Don’t waste your time playing games; value yourself enough to rise above mediocrity.

Others will value us if we value ourselves.

You will radiate it if you choose to be honest with yourself, to love yourself, and to accept nothing less than what you want.

It’s contagious when you choose happiness and take care of yourself, when you stop caring what others say and start living your best life. It’s appealing, it’s forceful, and it’s noticed — even by ex-lovers.

Natasha x

  • Please consider working with me if you require additional and more personalised assistance with your relationship.

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